Watching yesterday morning infotainment, shuddered to hear the artist's adolescent girls who go to jail because of a case, it was also pregnant out of wedlock, has been two months. There was no confirmation of who the father of the baby.
Adolescents with all the changes and the facts of other teenagers as well as ever disclosed in the previous article (Teens and Sex) is always interesting to discuss.
The fact the artist is just a spectacle that seems to have become so common we eat everyday. Other worst data reveals the fact that no less mirisnya, teenagers and even willing to perform abortions when the pregnancy becomes unwanted: 700 thousand teenagers Indonesia each year have abortions. Though abortion was at risk of death.
Other consequences of free sex among teenagers is also a wide range, affected by HIV / AIDS, STDs (Sexually Transmitted Disease), KTD (Unwanted Pregnancy) to abortion (as mentioned earlier) which can cause permanent disability or resulted in death.
Psychological result that is often forgotten when doing this actually is: guilt, anger, sadness, regret, SHY, LONELY, DO NOT HAVE HELP, CONFUSED, STRESS, SELF-HATE, HATE PEOPLE INVOLVED, FEAR NOT CLEAR, INSOMNIA, LOSS OF CONFIDENCE SELF, EATING DISORDERS, LOSS OF CONCENTRATION, DEPRESSION, grieving, HAVE NO HOPE, anxiety, NOT FORGIVE MYSELF, FEAR GOD PUNITIVE, NIGHTMARES, feeling empty, hallucinations, HARD MAINTAINING RELATIONSHIPS.
So here are some reasons why this could occur:
1. CAN NOT SAY 'NO':
- Usually because of fear severed relationship by her boyfriend. How to maintain the relationship. And usually, after the boyfriend would run well.
- Seduce girlfriend was in such a way, until finally could not refuse. After that, who will be responsible for it?
- Usually used as an excuse as a proof of love. Actually if you really love, will maintain that sex after marriage.
2. CHILDREN NOT FEEL GAUL
With ever had sex, was considered 'Gaul'. One great though. However, many teenagers who have low self-concept remains to do so is perceived as 'Gaul'.
3. BUSINESS
Increasingly rampant prostitution, just the lure of the Blackberry can make teenagers do it loh! In some areas, teenagers are also used as a business tool by her parents or also because the problem of poverty.
4. RELIGIOUS VALUES reduced
If the first does, handrails opposite sex only, I think once taboo. Religion is an excuse. He said the religion should not be. But, now probably well familiar? His teachings still remains the same, but the values may have started to shift times it seems ...
5. TV shows
Well, this should not be asked deh. Dicekokin impressions each day with soap operas, infotainment, movies, etc.. What happens is not broken? At a minimum there is a desire to make teenagers want to try? Hm ... do not let the incident deh ya ...
6. LIFESTYLE
Well, finally there are some people even have live it as a lifestyle. It's normal. Ckckck ...
However, the authors confident and optimistic, there are many teenagers who have strong attitudes and principles with this formula:
Dating + Love = Marriage, then SEX
Just look in the mirror of teenagers in Tangerang Dumpit when writers do counseling over there at the end of last month. They are teenagers who have the attitude and good self-concept. Teens from lower ranks, though often forced to work to help their parents, still have a principle not to premarital sex. They know that they will say 'NO' and learn to respect themselves.
However, sex education still needs to be done so this does not happen again. Again, this HOMEWORK Who ? Parents, teachers, or teenage self?
What is certain: TEENS STILL HAVE A FUTURE!
Adolescents with all the changes and the facts of other teenagers as well as ever disclosed in the previous article (Teens and Sex) is always interesting to discuss.
The fact the artist is just a spectacle that seems to have become so common we eat everyday. Other worst data reveals the fact that no less mirisnya, teenagers and even willing to perform abortions when the pregnancy becomes unwanted: 700 thousand teenagers Indonesia each year have abortions. Though abortion was at risk of death.
Other consequences of free sex among teenagers is also a wide range, affected by HIV / AIDS, STDs (Sexually Transmitted Disease), KTD (Unwanted Pregnancy) to abortion (as mentioned earlier) which can cause permanent disability or resulted in death.
Psychological result that is often forgotten when doing this actually is: guilt, anger, sadness, regret, SHY, LONELY, DO NOT HAVE HELP, CONFUSED, STRESS, SELF-HATE, HATE PEOPLE INVOLVED, FEAR NOT CLEAR, INSOMNIA, LOSS OF CONFIDENCE SELF, EATING DISORDERS, LOSS OF CONCENTRATION, DEPRESSION, grieving, HAVE NO HOPE, anxiety, NOT FORGIVE MYSELF, FEAR GOD PUNITIVE, NIGHTMARES, feeling empty, hallucinations, HARD MAINTAINING RELATIONSHIPS.
So here are some reasons why this could occur:
1. CAN NOT SAY 'NO':
- Usually because of fear severed relationship by her boyfriend. How to maintain the relationship. And usually, after the boyfriend would run well.
- Seduce girlfriend was in such a way, until finally could not refuse. After that, who will be responsible for it?
- Usually used as an excuse as a proof of love. Actually if you really love, will maintain that sex after marriage.
2. CHILDREN NOT FEEL GAUL
With ever had sex, was considered 'Gaul'. One great though. However, many teenagers who have low self-concept remains to do so is perceived as 'Gaul'.
3. BUSINESS
Increasingly rampant prostitution, just the lure of the Blackberry can make teenagers do it loh! In some areas, teenagers are also used as a business tool by her parents or also because the problem of poverty.
4. RELIGIOUS VALUES reduced
If the first does, handrails opposite sex only, I think once taboo. Religion is an excuse. He said the religion should not be. But, now probably well familiar? His teachings still remains the same, but the values may have started to shift times it seems ...
5. TV shows
Well, this should not be asked deh. Dicekokin impressions each day with soap operas, infotainment, movies, etc.. What happens is not broken? At a minimum there is a desire to make teenagers want to try? Hm ... do not let the incident deh ya ...
6. LIFESTYLE
Well, finally there are some people even have live it as a lifestyle. It's normal. Ckckck ...
However, the authors confident and optimistic, there are many teenagers who have strong attitudes and principles with this formula:
Dating + Love = Marriage, then SEX
Just look in the mirror of teenagers in Tangerang Dumpit when writers do counseling over there at the end of last month. They are teenagers who have the attitude and good self-concept. Teens from lower ranks, though often forced to work to help their parents, still have a principle not to premarital sex. They know that they will say 'NO' and learn to respect themselves.
However, sex education still needs to be done so this does not happen again. Again, this HOMEWORK Who ? Parents, teachers, or teenage self?
What is certain: TEENS STILL HAVE A FUTURE!
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